Lol, I know I always have something to say. Especially with my best friend. I get excited over little things....I need to stop that. Anyway I never thought about blogging on Long Distance but it occurred to me while I was in bed so I thought I'd go ahead, Whenever I talk about a guy I like to my best friend almost always are they far away from me. But yeah I usually never take "talking to them" as a waste of time or something rather unrealistic especially when I truly like the person. Since the beginning of this year, I've only spoken to two people whom I was very interested in. I would have said yea in a blink of an eye lol. My best friend knowing the situation (distance) said to me, "I know you, you can't do this. After a while you'll get bored or tired and move on." 90% of the time I get mad because i really want to prove that I can but it's even more annoying when I know deep down she's right. I tried to assure myself on both occasion that things would turn out different. I'd tell her, "For him I'd go the distance." blah blah. Well I would have but then it's just me trying so hard not to face the harsh reality of things.
For most people they can withstand distance, others practically can't. Its definitely an agreement between the people involved. No use being in a relationship if its going to be one sided the whole time. Anyway, that's just about it. Do what pleases you. Night!
For most people they can withstand distance, others practically can't. Its definitely an agreement between the people involved. No use being in a relationship if its going to be one sided the whole time. Anyway, that's just about it. Do what pleases you. Night!
...and by the way, the thought of distance breaks my heart.
Ok so i have to comment on this one cos ive been dealing with it for the past 9months! Long distance sucks ass! Its hard, frustrating n screwed! But in a way its great. I actually never thought it would last this long but i also agree that its not for everyone. Its also a two way thing. Its a hell of alot of work from both parties but its usually worth it. Oh and theres the trust issue also which is tdhfhfjfhfhtjfhf i cnt even find the right word for it.... But i think the keywords here are love, committment and trust. If these things r moderately intact ( its barely never in excess) then i say go for it &hearts. Whew! That was alot sha :/
ReplyDeleteLool I liked your comment especially when you tried talking about trust issues. Well that's definitely a big deal and I hope it works out for you in the long run and y'all can be together.
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