Would you rather lead someone on?

For weeks now, I've been stalling a certain person who claims to "like me". At first, I thought it was a joke or one of those things that would eventually pass. Apparently I was wrong, this made him even more persistent and I wasn't quite happy at all. It felt like he didn't listen to a word of what I said to him even though I had specifically told him I didn't really like him in that manner. I'm really not sure why I was straight forward or why I didn't think to lead him on like some females would have done. I guess we're all different, I didn't want him thinking there was a chance of something happening eventually when I knew otherwise and besides I've never been the type to take people seriously. I know that's bad but yeah that's a story for another day. So, even if he indeed liked me as he stated and I felt the same way, I would probably have laughed at the thought of him even openly telling me he was serious. #Sigh. I'm really not ready for anything and even if I was, I have no intention of being committed to anyone right now. Or should I just "just anyone". I have my mind set on someone already and until then, I'm just going to be testing the waters and playing balls :). Lol I know that seems like  WTF?! did she just say but o well.

Anyways, don't think of lying to someone if you really aren't into them. It saves them from heartache and it also prevents you from wasting your time. That being said, be thoughtful about whatever situation like this you might be in and the decision you make eventually. Be considerate ...always!

Safe!